This is a question I get from the dad's and birth partners often. You are her number one support, and you are irreplaceable.

So, How do I, as a doula, fit in?

I am a certified birth doula and have been practicing for over 10 years. I have supported countless births and experienced a multitude of situations, some were expected and some were not. I come alongside both of you in this experience and view it as a team situation. You know each other best, I know birth best. Countless dads have been forever grateful for the support I provided not just to mom, but also to them. I help them know how to support her best in each stage of labor.

First time moms can have long labors sometimes 24 hours... it will begin at home, and depending on where she has chosen to give birth, whether home, birth center or hospital, the two of you will be on your own for a majority of time (yes, even at a hospital). Here is where a doula comes in, I come along and help moms and couples know movements and laboring positions that will keep birth moving along, and that can add comfort and a level of relief throughout the experience. But here is the clencher: I am always showing both of you how to do these things together. There are times when labor is lasting all night, or has gone into the 2nd night of very little sleep, and you need a nap or a snack, and so, we tag team. There are also several times I step out and give you two space to be together. Think of me as a support person, who keeps labor moving physiologically, helps you both mitigate risks, provides peace when labor seems challenging, and I help you to know how to be involved and supportive when it is seemingly hard to know how to help mom.

Birth is a sacred and transformative experience, not just for her, but for you as well. It is an honor to support you both to have an experience that is safe, peaceful and memorable.

On your team,

~Katie

"Birth is a very private, intimate experience, do we want another person there?"